"No, I Am Not Fine!" P.T.S.D. and Birth Trauma: AMY LEIGH LOOPER
Description
This week's guest is Amy Leigh Looper, a maternal leadership coach based in the United States. After a hugely successful career in enterprise software sales, Amy suffered postpartum depression with both of her children. We discuss the impact this had on her life and how she has turned her drive and knowledge to coaching mums on her maternal leadership program, which reduces fear and anxiety and encourages connection, confidence and growth.
This episode was recorded over Zoom from America, so apologies for the fluctuating sound quality. And for Brandy the Siamese cat's cameo at the beginning!
*TRIGGER WARNING: *Birth Trauma, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, brief mention of Suicide*
IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS:
[00:00 ] Teaser quote.
[01:53 ] Introduction to Amy.
[03:41 ] Life before having her daughters.
[04:47 ] The first pregnancy - placenta praevia and bed rest.
[07:27 ] The mental load of tongue tie issues and sleep deprivation.
[10:04 ] Aiva's birth - C-section.
[10:58 ] *Trigger warning: brief mention of suicide of close family member*
[12:17 ] Lack of emotional support from her husband due to grief.
[15:05 ] Emberly's birth - V.B.A.C. and forceps.
[16:42 ] Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and E.M.D.R. Therapy.
[20:15 ] A forced smile 'get this baby off of me'.
[21:30 ] The impact of medical students watching the birth.
[25:10 ] P.T.S.D. and heightened anxiety. Leaving her high-flying career.
[30:14 ] How you fundamentally change when you become a mother.
[37:22 ] Finding her calling.
[39:14 ] How employers need to better support working mothers.
[40:26 ] Amy's work supporting other mums.
[43:48 ] Attitudes and support for postpartum depression in America.
[52:47 ] How to improve the system - better education, including employers.
[54:48 ] The impact of short maternity leave in America.
[56:41 ] Personal growth.
[58:21 ] Amy's message to her younger self and for others out there suffering.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Click here for Amy's website for more information on her maternal leadership coaching and courses, including overcoming Working Mother Burnout.
- Information on Placenta Praevia
- Find out more about Tongue Tie
- Click for information on V.B.A.C. – Vaginal Birth After Caesarean.
- Link to information on P.T.S.D. – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
- Find out more about E.M.D.R. Therapy here – Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing.
- Listen to Christina Brown's episode of Blue MumDays
- Medicaid support for postpartum parents in America
- According to Amy, 75% of women suffering from postpartum depression and anxiety in America don’t seek support.
- Listen to the Blue MumDays episode on Birth Trauma here – with Dr Rebecca Moore of ‘Make Birth Better’.
- Find out more about Amy's book 'Leading Motherhood' through this link. It launches on 16th February 2023.
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NEXT EPISODE:
Next time I speak to author, podcaster and professional grief counsellor Keji Moses. Keji talks movingly about the devastation of losing her baby girl Mayah, who was stillborn at 35 weeks. She has since made it her mission to shed light on the mental health impacts of pregnancy loss. Through her charity Mayah's Legacy, Keji supports families affected by this very personal tragedy and helps them to advocate for the care they need.
SUPPORT:
If you are struggling right now, please know that it’s okay to talk and reach out for help.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND WILL NOT FEEL THIS WAY FOR EVER.
We hope these support services are helpful (please note we do not check or monitor them individually).
Action on Postpartum Psychosis (APP)
Moderated Forum, click here to find out more.
Email: app@app-network.org
Tel: 020 3322 9900
ADDA - the Attention Deficit Disorder Association
National Resource Center (NRC)/ADHD Helpline Health Information Specialists
866-200-8098, Monday-Friday, 1 p.m. — 5 p.m. ET
ADHD UK - peer support, created by people with ADHD for those with ADHD
The ADHD Foundation - the neurodiversity charity
Call us - 0151 541 9020
Email - info@adhdfoundation.org.uk
AIMS for better birthing.
Email: helpline@aims.org.uk
This email will go to a group of AIMS volunteers and someone will respond as soon as possible.
Telephone: +44 (0) 300 365 0663
You will be able to leave a voicemail message which will be sent to all our Helpline Volunteers. Please include your name, phone number and brief details of your enquiry. A Volunteer will try to call you back as soon as possible.
Andy's Man Club
A non-judgemental talking group for men
https://andysmanclub.co.uk/club-information/clubs/
Email: info@andysmanclub.co.uk
Association of Postnatal Illness
Helpline: 10am – 2pm – 0207 386 0868
Email: info@apni.org
Live chat online facility
Free NHS-accredited Baby Buddy app offering
evidence-based information and self-care tools to help parents during pregnancy
and early stages of parenting.
App users also have access to a confidential, text-based Crisis Messenger which provides
24/7 support for new and expectant parents who are feeling extremely anxious or overwhelmed.
email: info@bipolaruk.org
Email: support@birthtraumaassociation.org.uk
Contact <a href="https://www.thecalmzone.net/
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